Most porn videos under the category show men to be in submissive roles like that of a student, an employee or simply a for-hire guy, playing to the fantasy where men wish women to take control of the situation and dominate them. In fact, anything that makes them a rebel and gives them a sense of defiance as well as pleasure, is a sure-shot formula for boosting their ego. Well, that and the fact that having sex with a MILF would mean a subtle role-reversal of who is in charge, which again, breaking the conventional standards of sex, is somewhat fascinating to a lot of men. And turns out, MILFs, as per men, are pretty suited in delivering that kind of pleasure in bed.Īt the same time, there is also a lot of debate on whether or not the fascination towards MILFs is generated from the fact that it is taboo and that people love to explore what is forbidden. However, let’s not forget that another major reason why people have sex is for pleasure. Which makes the idea of a man romancing a woman way older than him and beyond the capability of bearing a child, ‘shameful’.
People often think of sex as this biological process to have kids, or at least that’s the stance of society towards it. Perhaps, it is the idea of being with someone who would know what she is doing in bed, that drives men towards the precipice of this fantasy, often making them wonder what it would be like to have sex with a friend’s mom or a neighbourhood woman they find extremely sexy.
This desire includes jealousy towards the father and the unconscious wish for that parent's death."Īs gross as it sounds, it might just explain why this unconscious impulse of being sexually attracted to one’s own mother was subconsciously projected on someone else’s mom, because let's face it, that’s still better than giving wind to an incestuous fantasy.Īnother reason, a more believable one, could be simply the fact that men find themselves attracted to an older and ergo experienced woman. One, is an old and rather controversial Freudian theory - Oedipus Complex, that is defined as “a male child's unconscious desire for the exclusive love of his mother. And the reasons behind it have been studied to be many. You see, the word ‘MILF’ is short for a ‘Mother I’d Like To F*ck’, a term that over time achieved a reputation of being a man’s one of many strong sexual desires. In fact, to date, MILF is one of the most visited categories on porn sites and the credit goes just as much to Lisa Ann as it does to human psychology. Even more so because everything seemed achievable now, even their most suppressed desires.Īnd while men would not admit fantasizing about their friend’s moms or their older teachers, the yearly statistics on porn sites that constantly show a boom in the number of hits on the now popular category, speak for itself. Not to say, the idea of romancing an older woman got men as hard as a rock. Suddenly, the men as well as the porn industry had found a way to call women older and still make it flattery at the same time. And from then on, there was no looking back.
It was like putting something out there that they didn't even know they needed. Just the depiction of something as taboo and provocative was enough to stroke a man’s deepest darkest desire for MILFs for the first time. It all started with American Pie when Jennifer Coolidge playing the role of Stifler’s mother has sex with her son’s friend on a pool table in the basement.
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